You’re sitting there crying your eyes out over a man who didn’t even think twice about letting you go. Why? Why are you allowing someone who doesn’t give a damn control your emotions like that?
I get it. He pulled the rug out from under you. You thought he was perfect and he treated you well. You thought you finally found the guy who was going to make you forget the pain that all the others before him have caused you. But guess what? He’s no different. He’s just like them. They didn’t deserve you, and neither does he.
The right guy isn’t going to be able to walk away from you so easily. He’s not going to be entertaining other girls while he’s talking to you. He’s not going to leave you questioning his intentions. You will know how he feels about you and you will be secure in those feelings. He will wipe away all those doubts because he’s going to want you to know how loved you are.
This guy wasn’t it. It hurts. It hurts like hell. But it’s better to know now than to invest a second more of your time on a pointless relationship. There’s a line of guys waiting to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Wipe those tears and remember that this is his loss.
He lost the best thing that ever walked into his life because he’s selfish. He can’t get out of his own way to see that you would have given him literally everything. You would have done anything to make him happy. To make him feel loved and appreciated. He couldn’t even give you the decency of giving you any kind of closure. And he just walked away like it was nothing.
He used you. It hurts. It doesn’t feel good. But he’s not worth one more tear. He’s not worth one more sleepless night. He didn’t deserve you before your breakup, and he sure as hell doesn’t deserve you now.
It’s hard to walk away gracefully when your heart is broken, but you’re not doing this for him. You’re not walking away to give him peace and to make him feel better. I get that you want him to hurt the way that you are hurting. You want him to miss you and to realize what he lost.
He’s not going to realize it, and you sending him paragraphs pouring your heart out isn’t going to change that. It’s just going to give you false hope and make him feel like he’s still got you, even without a commitment.
You’re worth a commitment. You’re worth a guy who’s going to get up everyday and give you his all. Anything less isn’t worth your time, and it certainly isn’t worth your tears.
Once you finally realize what you deserve, you won’t ever let a man have this kind of control over your emotions again. You’ll gladly hold the door open for him if he wants to walk out because you’ll know that he wasn’t good enough for you, not the other way around.
If he can hurt you this badly, he doesn’t deserve you. You deserve better. Better is coming. Be patient.
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