want you to know there will be moments in this life when things are not perfect. You will experience the world for what it is, and that means at times it is cruel and uninviting.
There will be moments in this life that will break you. But being broken and experiencing heartbreak doesn't have to be a negative thing. In this world showing it makes you beautiful. Because you having emotions makes you human.
That pain in your chest, that tightness you hold will hurt - but it is temporary. Heartache and heartbreak exists in order to bring us to the strongest moments of growth.
Please remember to feel broken - to be broken - to feel full of heartache is not something to feel bad about. You will go through it whether you like it or not, whether you are ready to experience it or not.
Life has a way of doing that, of inviting disruption and causing pain. But don't let that keep you from loving. From being kind. From being compassionate to the people around you, and in your life.
Love with more conviction than the time you were hurt before. Because it is others in this world who will adequately support you and be there for you who are worth your time.
Trust them. Be there for them. Remember when your heart is in pieces, the ones who have always been consistent will be the ones to pick it up.
It is not easy - to love - to forgive - to even live.
But know that even with the shortness of breathe, with the hardship of swallowing - better days are always around the corner.
It might not always come when you want it but it will show itself in the most vulnerable, and strongest of times.
If the sappy songs make you feel crappy, if the favorite spots you shared with people make you feel sad, if the trust is broken - know you are always allowed to feel it all.
Do not be afraid to embrace. See heartache takes time. The longer you try to avoid facing it, the harder it will be to move on from it.
Let it all work out the way it is supposed to.
Feel all and everything the way they should be. There will be days you will feel crappy - and some days you will feel even worse... but heart ache is a process that takes time to heal.
Please be patient with your heart. Be patient with yourself.
And know that even when people hurt you that doesn't mean you should love them any less. You have things you have to learn about yourself. So give yourself room to experience it all.
The day will come when all the pain you've felt will fade. And it will see like the sun is never ending. And I know it might be hard to believe that no, but every moment of this life is worth experiencing.
Good or bad you are just as beautiful.
Take the time to remind yourself that you are not weak. You won't stay broken forever. You have been through one moment after another and I promise that you will continue to overcome all kinds of battles.
I believe in you, and I always will.
So please believe in yourself like the way I do. Because you are more this this one encounter and that is worth remembering.
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